Getting your ex back isn’t easy by any means, but it’s definitely not impossible. You shouldn’t be defeatist about this situation, especially if you had a good relationship before, because getting your ex back is a very real possibility if you follow a few simple steps. These steps have been proven to work and are very simple, you shouldn’t have any problem doing them and you should also be able to see why the will work:

1. Remain calm – If you panic and start losing your mind because of the situation you’re in, your ex is going to find out, and they will not be impressed. If you start drinking too much or you start begging to have your ex back, you are almost instantly going to kill any chance you may have had of rekindling that relationship. You need to show that you have a level head and can remain calm in this situation, whilst also maintaining your confidence. If you lose all your self esteem just because they break up with you, you just aren’t going to be able to get them back, because confidence is a highly desirable quality and is something that your ex will be attracted to.
   
   
2. The next thing you need to do is try and give your ex distance. If you try calling them or sending them letters, they are just going to get even more annoyed with you. One reason they may have broken up with you is that they needed space, so you need to give them that space and allow them to think for themselves for a short period of time. Don’t think that giving her distance will kill any chances you have, because it will almost certainly increase them, and trying to contact your ex immediately will only do damage.
   
   
3. Stay Social – If you hide away in your room and sulk about the break up, you’re just proving to your ex that you don’t have a social life. The reason your ex may have been attracted to you in the first place was because you were very sociable and had a great group of friends.  You shouldn’t forfeit that just because you’re unhappy about your situation, so make you go out and enjoy yourself as much as you can to show your ex that you are still the same person they first fell in love with.
   
   
4. Don’t get angry – If you get angry and start insulting your ex or their friends, you’re just going to completely destroy any future chances of a relationship. Whilst it may be tempting to take out some of your frustration on your ex, it’s quite simply a very bad idea and you need to spend some time cooling off before you talk to them again.